About Me

About Me

Most “divorce coaches” will pat your hand and whisper, “You’ll get through this.”
That’s not me.

I don’t coddle. I don’t sugarcoat.
I tell the truth. Even when it’s brutal. Especially when it’s brutal.

Because if you don’t learn how to play this game strategically, you’ll get burned like I once did.

My Story

I’ve been through divorce four times. Four battles, four awakenings, four chances to master the board.
Each one taught me a different angle of the game: how exes collude, how allies turn into saboteurs, how the court system often rewards manipulation over truth.

It wasn’t clean. It wasn’t just. And it sure as hell wasn’t fair.
But every round sharpened me. Every collapse forced me to rise stronger.
Those divorces didn’t make me a failure; they made me a strategist.

That’s when I stopped seeing divorce as a broken love story and started seeing it for what it really is:
a high-stakes chess game that demands precision, foresight, and courage.

The Wild Game I Played

When I shifted from emotional reaction to calculated strategy, everything changed.

I repositioned the pieces; legally, emotionally, financially, socially.
I saw patterns most people miss. I caught plays happening in the shadows.
I learned how to turn pawns into power, anticipate moves five steps ahead, and call Checkmate without apology.

And in the process, I uncovered more than just strategies.
I exposed hidden alliances. I revealed betrayals I never wanted to believe.
And I proved something women rarely get told: the system doesn’t play fair, but you can still win if you know the game.

Beyond Divorce

For 7 years, I also worked as a boudoir photographer.
I spent thousands of hours helping women reclaim their bodies, own their power, and rise from the ashes of what someone else tried to reduce them to.

That same lens—empowerment, truth, reclamation—is exactly what I now bring into divorce strategy.

Why I Do This

I coach women through divorce because I’ve lived every version of it.
I’ve been burned, blindsided, and broken open.
And I’ve learned how to rise, reclaim power, and win anyway.

This isn’t about “getting through” or making peace with scraps.
This is about rewriting the rules, reclaiming your crown, and making damn sure you never get played again.

If you’re ready to stop being the pawn and start moving like the queen, you’re in the right place.
I’ll hand you the strategy. You’ll make the moves.
And together, we’ll call Checkmate.